Ladies cum first
There is no hiding or pretending for a man. When we cum you will definitely know. Not so much for women. Some of very quiet, their body language is minimal, their breathing pattern barely changes, there is no telling. On the other end of the spectrum, some are very vocal and squirmy from the get go and it’s just as impossible to tell if they have reached that point.
I prefer not to assume anything and that’s why I encourage women to tell me when they have an orgasm. Ladies, it’s rewarding for your partner to know they got you there. It’s also informative – they can take note of what they were doing to you to get you there. Critical if it’s a casual partner so they can learn what gives you pleasure and repeat it but super sexy as well for your steady partner to hear and I would also say, for yourself as well.
Gentlemen out there, make “ladies cum first” your cardinal rule. Earn her devoted caresses and attention by focusing on her first. Treat her like a Goddess, she will treat you like God. Make sure she is satiated before you are. If you are the type of guy who will quickly lose interest after ejaculation then hold it. Wait for your turn, make her cum, ideally more than once if possible, then cash your chips!
Ladies, don’t settle! Your pleasure and satisfaction is just as important as his. It doesn’t matter if it takes time to get you there. Don’t feel guilty about it but do guide him on what you like (and what you don’t like as well.) Incorporate toys if you have too.
It might not always be possible for some who have difficulty having orgasms but ideally, the embrace should not be over until you too have had your pleasure.
