A fun way to spice things up is to explore sensory play. First off, try blindfolds. It’s a simple concept that forces you to focus on your other senses. It also builds anticipation not knowing what your partner is doing or what’s to come and it heightens the excitement and pleasure for many.
Touch
Your partner can run over your body a soft paintbrush, a feather or even a cold steel object while blindfolded. Fingertips work well too! For even more sensation, they can use ice cubes, wax. Another very pleasurable sensation is the hot/cold contrast. Your partner can sip some hot tea then perform oral on you and follow that up with a sip of ice cold water (or take a small ice cube in their mouth) and go back and forth between the hot and the cold. An incredible sensation that also works very well on men too!
Aural
Music affects our mood. Try different kind of music see how it affects you. It might bring a different side of you when you hear classical music or current Rap, ocean waves or a soundtrack of a 70s porn movie!
Smell
Try incense, room spray again it can affect some of us in surprising way sometimes.
Taste
Using food can be very sexy as well. The classic whip cream can or chocolate sauce drips that your partner eats off of you. For those who don’t have a sweet tooth like myself might want to go for nyotaimori instead. The Japanese practice of serving sushi on a naked woman!
Being fed a variety of food without seeing and knowing what it is is quite fascinating. I’m sure you’ve heard of such restaurants that offer meals in complete darkness. Even the most basic food can completely fool us. Our sight is very powerful and can over power the other senses. Who knows you might like something you don’t normally like! I definitely want to try one of those restaurants one day.
Whatever you do with food, it is not recommended for internal use. Use proper sex toys for any penetration, if you really must, put a condom on that cucumber or zucchini. Even if it is organic (ie free of pesticides and herbicides) it can be harmful and change the chemical balance of the vagina and cause yeast infections and create other issues.
Some fun movies about food and sex:
- Tampopo (Japan, 1985)
- 9 ½ weeks (US, 1986)
- Like water for chocolate (Mexico, 1992)
What’s your favorite food and sex movie?
