Ever encountered the Kivin Method? Perhaps you’ve dabbled in it unknowingly. The Kivin Method is an oral technique designed for vulva owners, offering a distinctive approach to cunnilingus. By engaging from the side, this method provides a unique angle of stimulation, potentially intensifying the experience for some individuals.
So, what sets it apart?
- Perpendicular Position: Instead of the traditional front-facing position, the partner approaches the vulva from either side.Typically, one leg is raised to facilitate access—imagine one leg draped over your partner’s neck or back, or your knee against your chest.
- Enhanced Stimulation: The angled approach allows for broader stimulation of the vulva with each tongue movement. In contrast to conventional oral methods that often focus solely on the clitoris, the Kivin Method makes it easier to lavish attention on the labia as well.
- Access to Sensitive Areas: The Kivin Method grants convenient access to other sensitive areas of the body, including the anus, vaginal opening, and the perineum—the soft spot between the vaginal opening and the anus. Manual stimulation of these regions can complement oral activities.
- Potential for Faster Orgasms: Some individuals report that the Kivin Method may lead to quicker orgasms compared to traditional oral techniques, attributing this to the additional stimulation encompassing more of the clitoris and vulva.
How to try the Kivin Method:
- Get in Position: You can lie on your back or on your side, raising one leg. Your partner positions themselves beneath your raised leg, often lying on their stomach. Experiment with variations to find a comfortable position for both of you.
- Vulva Stimulation: Your partner should use their tongue to stimulate all parts of your vulva, offering pleasure by engaging the entire width of the labias and clitoris.
- Diverse Tongue Motions: Experimenting with different mouth and tongue motions, such as up-and-down or circular movements, varying tongue placements based on your preferences.
- Additional Stimulation: Enhance the experience by incorporating vaginal fingering, sex toys (vibrator, dildo, buttplug), or massaging the perineum—an erogenous zone easily accessible from this angle.
- Communication is Key: Communicate with your partner, tell them what feels good, how much pressure you want and any desire for stimulation in other areas. Like any new sex position, it’s great to debrief the experience with your partner afterward so you know what you’d both like to try next time.
Bottom Line
Always fun to experiment and try something new. Sex is not one-size-fits-all. Some people swear by the Kivin Method. Will it be the most amazing thing for you? Maybe, maybe not. Give it a shot a few times before you make up your mind. Remember, sexual exploration is a journey, not a destination.
